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My journey towards vegetarianism…

July 23, 2008 · 8 Comments

I was brought up to be a vegetarian. People who hail from my community generally don’t eat meat. Most of my family members from my parents’ generation still don’t. A few exceptions, like my father exist though. Though he has been a vegetarian for major part of his life, he did start eating meat on the occasional trips abroad. He introduced my sister and me, to the world of non-vegetarian food too. Both of us used to relish it a great deal. We would indulge in non-vegetarian delicacies with our father at least once, whenever my mother (who is a staunch vegetarian herself) would go on vacation to visit her parents.

Ever since my sister started on her spiritual journey with AOL, she has given up meat and many other tamas-inducing foods. She tries to restrict her diet, as far as possible, to sattvic foods. My father has also given up non-vegetarian food for health and ethical reasons. As for me, my journey towards vegetarianism has been slightly different.

Back in India, I used to travel to my workplace by bus. En route, we would pass a couple of butcher’s shops. I still recall the names of those shops. One of them was the ‘India’s Meat Shop’, and the other one, situated a few feet away from the first, was named ‘Maharashtra’s Meat Shop’. There used to be a signal right in front of these shops, which entailed a 2 minute wait right over there, almost every day. Daily, I would witness the man chopping away at the pink, fleshy meat. Not to mention, the hanging carcasses of various animals paraded in front of the shop. It is really weird, how I would be compelled to look in that direction, though I knew I would be repulsed by the brutality of it all, and eventually turn my face away in disgust !

This daily scenario started changing my attitude towards non-vegetarian food. It only got worse after I saw a couple of videos by PETA, which showcased how badly these animals were being treated before they were killed. And one fine day, I resolved that I would never touch meat again. I have to admit, I did break my resolution a couple of times, but always regretted it intensely. For a long time now, I have resisted meat. I have decided, that if I do have vegetarian options around, then that is what I will stick to. Thankfully, most of the times, there are.

I now strongly believe, that a person who doesn’t feel a hint of remorse or guilt, while eating meat, cannot by any means, call himself a compassionate human being. I know, I wasn’t being one, when I used to relish meat, without thinking for a moment, where it came from, or what forms of torture those poor animals had to go through, on their journey to my table ! Or maybe, I was in plain denial. I know some people, who do feel guilty about eating meat, but are not able to resist the temptation. Maybe, they don’t feel so strongly about it, or maybe they just have a weak will. But for those, who don’t even see any wrong in it, I feel their conscience is dead…

As long as men massacre animals, they will kill each other. Indeed, he who sows the seeds of murder and pain cannot reap joy and love.”

- Pythagorus

Nothing will benefit human health and increase chances for survival of life on Earth as much as the evolution to a vegetarian diet.”

- Albert Einstein

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  • dharmabum // July 24, 2008 at 6:08 am | Reply

    powerful quote, that, by einstein – leaves one a lot to think about.

    unlike u, i was brought up vegetarian, never exposed to meat eating, to the extent that my mother used, and still does strongly admonish it as a practice, even going to the extent of calling it ‘bad’.

    and then when i was out in the world, i did try my hand(tongue?) at it. i must admit, i never took to liking any of it. i suppose like others, it is a cultivated taste too. also possibly due to my upbringing with an inherent mental block. anyways, it wasn’t too hard to make a choice in my case. i also think vege food is a lot easier to cook, if u believe in making your own meal.

    i still argue with my mother though, about the good and bad. i feel it has a lot more to do with just choice. it is cultural, depends on myriad factors, including geography, which at times poses a severe constraint in terms of not making anything vegetarian avaliable in some places.

    i’d still think it a good journey though – and wish u luck and lots of will. thanks for sharing this!

  • Gee // July 24, 2008 at 7:13 am | Reply

    DB,
    That was a blunder on my part ! I was brought up to be a veggie too (updated the post), and till date, we’ve never eaten or cooked non-veg at home.
    It wasn’t very easy to give up meat initially, but once I started feeling strongly about the whole issue, I developed a sort of a revulsion towards it (which helped !)
    I agree, it might not be entirely correct to call it ‘good’ or ‘bad’ coz it is a matter of personal choice, also like you mentioned diet does depend upon geographical constraints…but it beats me how people can choose to be completely unaffected with the idea of having blood on their hands (even if in an indirect manner). Like someone I know (a staunch meat eater) recently said, “God made animals, so men could eat them and survive !”. I was speechless…

  • Xylene // July 24, 2008 at 8:10 am | Reply

    I am a Non vegetarian. I find it difficult to eat lunch/dinner without at least one non veg item.
    But yes we are killing animals, even for the fish it’s killed in worst torturous manner.
    But I don’t feel guilty when I eat meat. I think my heart is hardened like the normal human heart.
    We are humans; we never care about that poor animal who scream when its throat is sliced open.

    We just savor ourselves with a burger and ketchup.

    I feel that there is nothing wrong in killing animals for food. We were doing that for centuries and yes our heart hardened.

    But yes it’s a personal choice.

  • Xylene // July 24, 2008 at 8:19 am | Reply

    You could add an ‘about me’ page aswell. that could let the readers know on what are the topics you write about etc. You can choose to be totally anonymous aswell.

  • Gee // July 24, 2008 at 10:10 am | Reply

    Xylene,
    I’d like to believe that even centuries of acquired hardness can melt away in one magic moment of realization ! :-)
    I would recommend you to watch some of those videos by PETA, and then ask you if you still feel, there is nothing wrong…
    Finally though, it is a matter of personal choice, I agree :-)
    As for the ‘About Me’ page…words fail me, whenever I try to write it ! (Describing myself or my blog is something I find very hard to do). But I plan to update it soon…

  • dharmabum // July 25, 2008 at 4:42 am | Reply

    it is a vew of life, i am not surprised. in fact, some people think that everything else was made for man to ‘enjoy’ and ‘use’…without meaning offense, i think i have come across similar biblical references too…

    it is when we start thinking that ALL life, why even non living entities are equally important, created and pervaded by the very same Force, that we start respecting everything else in the universe…

  • xylene // July 25, 2008 at 6:01 am | Reply

    :) I have seen that video.. :)
    Its disgusting for sure. But my eating habits stay the same.

  • Gee // July 26, 2008 at 8:46 am | Reply

    DB – That was well said ! I hope, there will be a day, when everybody will realize that…and then, the world would have truly evolved ! :-)

    Xylene – What can i say…I rest my case ! :-)
    It takes all kinds to make the world, i guess…

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